Understanding The Tight Male Pelvic Floor

Not only do men have a pelvic floor, as was discussed in an earlier blog, they can also experience a tight male pelvic floor!

What happens with a tight male pelvic floor?

Pelvic floor muscles are like other muscles in the body in that they can become tight. Most people either know people with low back pain or have experienced their own bout of low back pain. These same people are often found to have tight muscles around their hips. The pelvic floor muscles are no different in that they can become tight and cause pain in areas such as the rectum, the testicles or scrotum, the low back or hips. Besides pain, a tight pelvic floor can cause symptoms such as urinary frequency/urgency, pain during ejaculation and muscle spasm in the buttocks region.

How does it happen?

Although everyone is different, some possible reasons that may lead to an overly tight pelvic floor are:


Men often stand with their feet pointed slightly outwards, or externally rotated. This keeps the external rotators, the glute muscles, overactive leading to eventual tightness. These muscles tend to press the buttock cheeks in towards each other and one of the muscles involved in this presentation is the piriformis. The piriformis muscle plays a role in the health of the pelvic floor and if this muscle is tight, so too is the rest of the pelvic floor.


Men who played a lot of hockey through their lifetimes. This sport does encourage that externally rotated position again with the hips, contributing towards the tight pelvic floor muscles

Butt Clencher

Though not specific just for men, clenching the buttock muscles throughout the day is a common strategy used by many people. This keeps the buttock muscles in a contracted position all day leading to the overly tight pelvic floor

Should I do Kegels?

Absolutely not! Strengthening a tight pelvic floor is not the answer! We would never strengthen other muscles in the body that are too tight because in order to have great strength, muscles have to be coming from a fully lengthened position. Release work is the first line of defence.

Treatment options for a tight male pelvic floor

Dry needling the external muscles; glutes and associated hip muscles. I have had great success with using a dry needling approach to help release trigger points in tight muscles such as the gluteus maximus, gluteus medius, gluteus minims, tensor fascia latae, etc. These muscles all work around the hip so releasing them will help the ‘inside’ muscles settle down as well.

Release Work

Using stretches along with breathing into the pelvic floor helps release these muscles


Breathing deeply and sending your inhale down into your pelvic floor will help soften these muscles so they can let go. When we inhale, our pelvic floors should lower, so focussing our inhales down into our pelvic floor muscles will help those muscles lower and release their tension.


It matters a lot less about the time we lay down to try and release our pelvic floor muscles if we aren’t addressing why they are the way they are. Posture can play a role and overly clenching the buttock muscles is common. So remind yourself as often as possible throughout your day to notice whether you are clenching and if so, let it go. If you are having a tough time remembering to do this through your busy day, try something like

setting an alarm on your phone to go off every 20 minutes

pick some coloured little dot stickers from the dollar store and put them in places you will see them throughout your day. Every time you see one, you check in with yourself and make sure your butt is relax

Bladder/Brain Changes

If your tight pelvic floor muscles are causing you to have an overactive bladder, then addressing this is just as important as the physical release techniques. The way to do this is to “give the brain a different message”. If you just went to the bathroom 20 minutes ago and already feel like you have to go again, give your brain something else to process. With tight pelvic floor muscles, the best remedy is the deep breathing:

You feel like you have to go again, even though you just went 20 minutes ago

  • Relax, sit or lean against something if possible
  • Take 3-5 deep breaths
  • When the urge has subsided, continue with what you were doing

*** even if you put off going again by 5 or 10 minutes, this is still positive, as the change happens bit by bit ***

For more ideas, refer to my youtube channel at:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJqDcZOOLoNKdBwxmY_wawA

61 thoughts on “Understanding The Tight Male Pelvic Floor”

  1. Hi.
    For about a year I have been suffering with urgency and when I drink one more glass of water 1/2 hour later I need to run to toilet. Also when I lie down my bladder fills very quickly. The other day after 4 hours outside I went to toilet,produced something like 200 ml and then 25 min later I had to go again and produced 300 ml. Is that actually possible ? My body producing urine so quickly ???

    • Hi Ludovit. Its possible you are never fully emptying…so there is always more to come out…sometimes more, sometimes less. Tight muscles can do this because when we pee, our pelvic floor muscles need to be relaxed so our bladder can do all the work of squeezing the urine out. If the pelvic floor muscles are too tight and unable to relax, the bladder won’t fully empty. To know if this is happening, your Dr. would order a post void residual test where they will ultrasound your bladder so they know how much is in there, have you empty and ultrasound again to see if you are fully emptying or not.

      • I had 3 ultrasounds after peeing and was told my bladder was completely empty ??

        • Well, thats good news at least. I wonder, if when tested you are able to fully empty, but when you aren’t thinking about it; going throughout your day, you don’t? The so called norms are: 5-8 pees per day based on 2 litres of water per day. The length of pee is 8-12 seconds; which only works if the stream is normal; no hesitating/stop and start, etc. Otherwise measuring is better…sounds like you are already doing that. Personally, I haven’t heard of someone generating that much fluid in such a short period of time on a consistent basis; especially if that person is fully emptying. I have had clients who drink 5, 6, 7, plus litres of water per day, thinking that is a good thing, and they pee all the time; obviously generating a lot of fluid quickly, but that is understandable. Diuretics may play a role, if you are on those? Or any other medications that have side effects of making someone want to pee more often; lots of coffee? If you aren’t generating that much fluid on a consistent basis, have you tried using the ‘urge’ techniques to quiet your bladder?

          • Hi.
            There’s lots to talk about, about the whole history I’ve been going through with my urinary issues.
            Can I message or email you privately ?
            You are actually first physio who answered my comment.
            Thanks so much

    • Hello Cathy.Can a tight pelvic floor cause ED in men? I can feel pressure between my sit bones.Feel a lot of pressure under area of scotum as well.All standard tests by my Dr. have been negative.Thank You

  2. Ok. Thanks.
    Have to do it tomorrow thou.
    I’m actually in central europe (Slovakia) and it’s 1am here so gotta go to bed now ?
    Thanks very much for your answers. Hope to speak to you soon.

  3. Cathy, have you ever worked with any men that have suffered from a condition called “hard flaccid” due to pelvic floor hyper activity ?

    • Hi Michael. I have. Its not as well known as some other presentations, but I have worked with some men with this issue.

      • I too suffer with the same issue as Michael and feel as though my pelvic floor is in a state of constant spasm. Physios in the past have pointed to a pelvic tilt and weak glutes as potential reasons for the condition but I’ve had no concrete cause given to me. Is it possible to relieve the tension in my pelvic floor and eradicate the problem or can anything be done? Thanks.

        • Hi Chris. Best suggestion is to work with a pelvic health physio as they can teach you some techniques to help relieve the pelvic floor muscle tension. Is there a 100% fix? With chronic pelvic pain issues, there often isn’t; however, you learn to manage the discomfort and thereby make some improvement. If you want, let me know what area you live in and I can help find someone for you.

          • Hi Cathy.,l don’t mean to but in but is there a physiotherapist that you could suggest in Olympia Washington as my Pelvic Therapist causes me pain for 5 to 7 days afterwards and l don’t think that is helping. It hurts so bad that it keeps me bed bound and in excruciating pain and yes we have discussed this. She also uses ultrasound heat therapy. What do you think is wrong. She only works on a few trigger points after. Tganks Dave

          • Hi David. Thanks for your email. Hmmm…if someone feels more discomfort after a session but within a day or two, feels better than before the treatment, then that is going in the right direction. But, if you are feeling more pain, and 5-7 days is a significant amount of time, and don’t feel significantly better than before the session, it might not be the right therapeutic direction for you, for now. It would help if you mentioned the clinic you were in so when I search, I won’t suggest that one…

  4. Looking for a pelvic floor specialist in my area. Bluffton South Carolina. This area is also close to Savannah Georgia. Do you have some recommendations?

    • Hi Larry. It took a while, but I finally heard back from someone. There are a couple of pelvic health therapists in Bluffton; at Horizon Rehab; call 843-671-7342 to talk with someone. Good luck with your rehab!

  5. Hi Cathy,

    I suddenly have OAB started July 2021, I had a history of on and off back pain/tightness prior to the onset of OAB. Is it possible that I have a hypertonic pelvic floor that causes my OAB? I had several urinalysis and blood test all clear no problem, same with Xray and ultrasound everything is normal. OAB and low back pain stays for 3 months now.

    • Hi Ed. Sorry for the incredibly late reply; I wasn’t checking in here for awhile. Yes, it is very common to have overly tight pelvic floor muscles leading to an overactive bladder. Your bladder is contracting when it shouldn’t; when it isn’t actually full. This needs some re-traiing between the brain and bladder as well as either lengthening or strengthening the pelvic floor muscles. If you let me know what area you live in, I will check with my group and suggest some names for you. It’s the best way to know what is going on with your pelvic floor muscles by having an actual in person assessment.

  6. Tight pelvic floor muscles troubles peeing sometimes I empty and sometimes I don’t my muscles are changing each day Somedays are better than others peeing is still very stressful for me.

    • Hi Branden. Sorry for the incredibly late reply; I wasn’t checking in here for awhile. Yes, it sounds like your muscles may be overly tight. When you pee, your pelvic floor muscles need to be relaxed so your bladder can squeeze all the fluid out. If the pelvic floor is a little tight, it won’t fully let go and this results in not fully emptying, start/stop peeing, a feeling that the bladder is never fully emptying. If you let me know where you are, I can check with my group and see who is in your area. It’s always good to have a pelvic health physio assess your pelvic floor muscles and get you going on something.

  7. My P.T. says that I have to relax my very tight plevic floor mussles and to drink more water during the day. During treatment, she pressed more firmly on my lower stomach and in between my anus and testicles and I peed a little. She knows I have accidents while preforming basic tasks while trying to live a normal life. Would catheters / bags be best to help stop the accidents vs taking medication? I have an over active bladder and urge inconsistence .

    • Well, by pressing down like that, the pressure is increased and if the pressure is greater than what your pelvic floor can handle, uncontrolled urination will follow. If you have overactive pelvic floor muscles, keep working with your pelvic floor physio to help you learn how to release their tension. Some people do take a medication to calm the bladder so there is less urge incontinence and sometimes that, in conjunction with your pelvic floor PT can help. Some people elect to work on their nervous systems and wait on taking medication. People can experience a lot of change once they understand how to change their nervous systems/have their bladder become less overactive. Have you talked about this with the physio that is working with you?

  8. Hi Cathy, I may have a similar condition. When I sleep, I feel all body relaxed except the pelvic floor area. It is always tense. I wake up after two hours maximum with a painful erection and an urge to pee. I go to the bathroom and when done the penis becomes soft again. This cycle continues for 3-4 times/night. I don’t drink water (almost never) and cut all my liquid intake by 7 pm maximum. Yet. I continue to generate urine until the morning. and the amounts are not small. I’m wondering if there is a process in the body that generates this much urine, not as a result of liquid intake.
    have you had a case like this before (the frequent erection with urgency to pee)? Thanks,

    • Hi Kal. Yes, this is a common presentation. Have a look on my website, under services, mens health and page down; there is a quick little blurb about proctalgia fugax. This can occur during nighttime. Because it’s normal to have many erections throughout the night, if having an erection causes discomfort, then you wake up, this causes discomfort in the bladder, so emptying helps. It’s best to have a pelvic health physio assess you and if those muscles are too tight, how to release them. If you let me know the area you are in, I can check with my group to see who is around.

  9. I don’t leak or have any incontinent issues but l do have pain in my pelvic floor and penis at times. My PT says l have a hypertonic pelvic floor. I assume that you agree with her?

    • Hi David. I can’t say from afar, you can have pain for other reasons, but most often, as a pelvic health physio, when a man has that sort of pain, there are one or more overly active areas within the pelvic floor musculature. The main thing is for your pelvic health physio to do an internal check teach you how to release those muscles.

  10. Cathy, is having weak contractions (almost unnoticeable) during orgasm a sign of a weak or tight pelvic floor. I don’t suffer from any pain in pelvic area or back, but my urine stream is definitely weaker and I need to press on my perineum to get that last amount of urine out. I feel like I’m too young (mid-forties) to be experiencing this, and it’s been going on for years now. Was told by my urine after ultrasound my bladder does not empty completley either. Didn’t really have a reason why, said prostate felt normal and was normal in size. Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks!

    • Hi Matt. It ‘sounds’ like your pelvic floor muscles may be have too much tone in them; overly tight. For example, when you pee, your pelvic floor muscles need to relax so your bladder is able to empty fully. Some men find sitting down helps to fully empty. The best thing is to have a pelvic floor physio assess your pelvic floor and teach you, if the muscles are overly tight, how to release them; it can be a bit tricky. You don’t want to strengthen those muscles if they are too tight; you need to lengthen them first. If you let me know what area you are in, I can check with my group and see who is in your area.

  11. Hi Cathy,
    I have been experiencing worsening pain in what I though was my prostate over the last 3 years. I have been through countless tests and now am seeing a urolog specialist who is telling me its my pelvic floor. I got the scenario you outlined (feet slightly extwrnalyy rotated, kaiphosis etc.). So, it would seem that this would be good news right ?!?! Some P.T. and I should get some relief…unfortunately I have bilateral hamstring tendonitis and can’t do any of the PT exercises that stretch my hamstring at all. Many of the exercises we need to do for my hamstrings I can’t do because of my pelvic floor and vice versa. I feel very very stuck and disheartened. Anything that causes pressure to my pelvic floor (sitting, ab strengthening, even trying to press my lower back onto the floor) causes really bad pain in the parineal area. Is there any hope that I might get passed this?

    • Hi Ben. You should absolutely been able to make a change. You don’t have to stretch their your hamstrings to get relief for the pelvic floor; there are lots of different movements you can do. The main point is to be able to release your pelvic floor muscles with breath. If you let me know where you are located, I can check with my group and see if there is someone in your area. The best thing is always to see a pelvic health physio in person so they can let you know what is going on with your pelvic floor muscles and how best to access them.

  12. Hey Cathy,
    Hope you’re doing allright.
    I am a thirty year old male who thought that he had an yeast infection at first which my doctor thought to, but after the urologist they found out i have a hypertonic pelvic floor. Sometimes it gets more red, it gets irritated randomly. From itchy to burning. Yeast was already rules out because the symptoms keep changing after a few days. Yet my mind is not sure if this is just my pelvic doing this or that the tight pelvic mimics an yeast infection. Also my penis hurts which happens alot i heard from a tight pelvic floor(soft and erect) but also it looks like I’ve lost some color and the head of the penis seems more red and irritated and at the same time more whitish asif the blood flow isn’t going well to my tip. Is this also a possibility of having a tight pelvic floor. I’m also seeing my PT tomorrow but these weird symptoms really are messing with my life. Bless you for being there for so many you are appreciated.


    • Hi Steve. I can totally see why those symptoms are causing you a lot of distress. Overly tight pelvic floor muscles can wreak havoc with the rest body. The good news is there is lots we can do. There is a condition called hard flaccid; this is when the penis is semi-rigid at the flaccid state and a loss in erectile rigidity. Look for into that, if that is also occurring. It’s great you have been seen by a specialist to rule out anything more serious causing penile discoloration. Is it a pelvic floor physio you are seeing? If so, they can help you release those tighter muscles, teach you how to do that and you can start working on it while at home. There are lots of options for helping people find those muscles and release them, so make sure you are able to do that.

  13. Hi Cathy, thank you for this website and I really feel like you truly understand the issues that some of us guys are going through. I too seem to have the overactive bladder as well as spasms at the back passage and I have long believed its muscle related, but most doctors just want to give you creams, tablets or surgery! Could you recommend a practice in London, UK who could assist me? Thank you.

  14. Hi Cathy, when I lie down at night before falling asleep it happens to me to have to go urinate multiple times with small amount of urine coming out and I feel like I can’t empty myself fully and I have trouble falling asleep. Can these be sign of tight pelvic floor muscles?

  15. Hi Cathy,

    Thanks for this post and all your helpful replies, I (33M) read through them all. I struggle with urinary hesitancy (slow to start, weak stream, stop and start) and the feeling like I am never “done” after peeing. In the mornings, my bladder area is generally sore until I go to the bathroom, and it subsides after 10-15 minutes. I also have lower left back pain, and tight hip muscles. Very slight symptoms appeared 5-6 years ago, but have been getting much worse the last 2 years. The only thing I can think of that changed was working from home with COVID (more sitting, worse posture?)

    I have had ultrasounds of prostate, kidneys and bladder. Also urine, blood and psa tests. All results normal.

    This year I went for pelvic floor physio for 3 months but the results were not noticeable. I did relaxation/breathing/stretches during this time and have continued to do so.

    Should I give up on hypertonic pelvic floor as a possible cause of my symptoms? Are there any other signs I could look for to confirm or rule it out? Is there anything else you would recommend (eg acupuncture)?

    Thanks so much for all this information. This is an invaluable resource.


    • Hi Alex. Great you have had all the tests done to rule out any pathology. I would look at the back and hips for sure. Are there any referral patterns between the back and hips and the pelvic floor? Your pelvic floor physio should have mentioned this if there were and you would feel this when they hit a spot inside your pelvic floor; you may feel that in your hips or back/tailbone area. 3 months is more than enough time to change the pelvic floor because ultimately you are changing your nervous system. I find this change comes rather quickly in most cases. Things to check for; does your pelvic floor physio say that he or she can feel your muscles actually softening, has their tone changed? This change, once the client knows how to release their pelvic floor, should happen within the first few sessions. I often add in some dry needling for the tighter hip muscles. I also look at how the person moves. If you think of this example; someone with super crappy posture (rounded shoulders, slumping forward) wanders into the gym. They do all these fantastic exercises to release their pecs and strengthen their back muscles and then they wander back out of the gym in the same crappy posture. Their body hasn’t learned anything. The pelvic floor is the same. That’s why posture and movement needs to be looked at as well. Have you and your physio looked at those things? Has your physio confirmed that your muscles have changed tone?

  16. Around 10-15 times and I have to make some extra effort to push out all of the urine and I still leak a little bit in my pants after I am done.

    • Sometimes tight muscles will do this. And the dribbling when you think you are finished is also common, with tight muscles. Most importantly is to make sure you know how to release and stretch the pelvic floor

  17. Hi Cathy,

    I’m a 30 year old male who has been dealing with OAB, mainly urgent urination, for the past 6 months. I’ve tried various medications, bladder training techniques, diet changes, etc. with little relief.

    My question to you is, could my leg workouts/training be possibly linked to my urgency issues? In addition to the urgency issues I’ve had constipation as well. I’m just curious if doing things such as heavy squats, lunges, etc. could be linked to causing my pelvic floor to possible become tight, which could possibly be the culprit for some of these issues?

    Thanks so much!!

    • Hi Jeremy. It could. When you do those exercises, you are also working your external rotators. When these muscles become tight, they can affect the pelvic floor as well; since one of these muscles you can actually access internally. Have you had a pelvic floor physio assess your pelvic floor? You need to know how to release those muscles from the inside. Externally, making sure you are adding in some glute/piriformis stretches. Do you need to stop these exercises? Some people need to stop what is adding to the problem, start doing the release exercises to lower the tone, then add the exercises back in. Others are ok to keep going with the exercises while they are also doing their release exercises. I would say the first step is to make sure you are actually able to stretch your pelvic floor properly.

  18. Cathy,

    I was a big proponent of male kegels, especially for myself. It allowed me to last longer in bed, and my orgasms were very explosive. It was wonderful.

    Then the pain came. I think I over tightened my pelvic floor muscles. Well, I went to a pelvic floor PT about 3 years or so ago (just before Covid), and she agreed. She did a lot of exercises to help me “relax” my pelvic floor area. She believed my pelvic floor was already very strong from a lot of weight lifting (squats, in particular), and that by doing kegels I was just tightening an area that was already strong to begin with.

    Ever since, I stopped doing kegels. Whenever I have sex, of course, and I’m clenching that area to “control” myself, it’s much harder. Also, my orgasms lack that “punch” the way they used to.

    So every now and then I think of doing kegels. Starting off very slow and gentle, and only holding for a second or two, before “pushing” for a second or two. Still, though, after 1 set of ten, the rest of the night my kegel area just feels sore.

    What gives? I love the orgasms and control doing kegels gave me, but hated the pain. However, when I do kegels, even light ones with pushing, I can almost feel that area tightening up again.

    Any help?

    • Hi JJ. You’re right; anything too tight starts to cause a problem. But, at the same time, you want those muscles strong. What might be happening is this…are you fully letting go in between your kegels? If you aren’t, the tone will stay higher and you won’t achieve the flexibility and length needed to get the next good rep. I would check that first. Since you’ve worked with a PF physio, your awareness of what the letting go feeling is, should be good. Notice, if you are actually fully letting go in between each rep? It also sounds like you will need to do some regular pf stretching forever, because it sounds like your pattern is to easily become too tight. Just add it in with your stretches or at the end of a stretch session, maybe 3x per week.

  19. Hi Cathy,
    For almost 2 years now I been dealing with difficulty starting to urinate which seems to come and go. I’ve been to urologist, PT, and a general surgeon. The general surgeon said it may be due to the result of a sports hernia. I have noticed the symptoms come on after working out or doing something as simple as the elliptical. The PT said my muscles are tight and weak and had me stretch for 6 weeks with no results. Could it be a sports hernia or some other muscle that is resulting in the difficulty starting urination? There’s no pain involved.

    • Well, my first thought is that a hernia could do this if it was entangled with the bladder, but you would most likely be getting infections, have way more symptoms, so that sounds less likely. Part of your core helps form the outer layer of the inguinal canal….so if you were not using your core most efficiently and possibly irritating this area, then your muscles tighten up again and affect the bladder? Was the physio you saw a pelvic health physio? Did they do internal work with you? And, if so, were you able to actually move and lengthen those inside muscles? I would want to make sure of that first off. You are changing your nervous system and this does happen quite quickly. If your physio confirmed that yes, you have completely lengthened these muscles, you have good strength in them and they co ordinate well with the rest of your core, it doesn’t sound like that would be the driver of the problem. Which brings us back the hernia…If there is strain there, and the muscles start to tighten up, that would play a big role in difficulty urinating. So, my main question would be, was it confirmed from your physio that there was a big change with respect to your pelvic floor muscles.

      • She had me stretch for six weeks and after there was no results she said she did not know what was going on and I could be my abs being too tight or could be my legs being too tight ( hamatrings). It was a regular PT that was familiar with pelvic floor dysfunction. What do you mean by internal work? Should I see one more specialized if so is there one near me I’m in Greenville SC? Regarding the sports hernia, it’s not like a normal hernia. There no bulge. Instead it has something to do with the ligaments that connect the abdomen to the thigh being weak or damaged. With all the research I did the name obturator internus kept coming up. While I never really had pelvic pain I did have gluteal and lower back and hip pain.

  20. Hi. I’m here as I don’t know what else to do. I wake up to pee 3-4 times a night, every night. I have had it since April 2021. I used to pee often during the day too, but I am not peeing too much volume as i’ve measured it. It’s just the frequency. Things have improved slightly, but I haven’t done anything for that. Now, when i wake up, sometimes i can go back to sleep without peeing. But it wakes me up again in 1-2 hrs, but i CAN resist. It’s not a strong urge, but it’s enough to wake me. The pee’s that wake me are usually only 100ml, sometimes more, so surely not enough to wake somebody. In the day time, i feel regularly, ‘some pee’, but i can hold off for a few hrs before going. I can have this even after peeing. The doctors think it’s OA bladder, ive had tests, but he said all ok and my bladder is as it should be. i have Anterior pelvic tilt and extremely tight hips, could i also have tight, NOT weak, pelvic floor muscles? I dribble after peeing too, so have to wipe with loo roll everytime. Sometimes i have ‘heavy feeling’ where i have to lift my scrotum (without hands) like a ‘jerking’. I have NO pain and no real urgency. Sometimes when i a larger pee wakes me up, it gives me an erection too, but ONLY when it’s a larger amount and only upon waking, never in the day time. So seems to be worse upon lying down. Sorry for long message. Thanks. Adam from Lancashire, UK

    • Hi Adam. I’m glad you have had checks with your Doc to ensure there isn’t any pathology present. That’s always the first step. Tight muscles can wreak havoc with your urinary system. Your bladder may be healthy but your pelvic floor muscles are likely too tight. When they are tight, they are weak; simply because they are held in a shortened position and can’t generate strength beyond that. Compare it to this example; if your elbow was bent as much as possible, your biceps are ‘on’ all the time. you might be somewhat strong in this one position but that’s it. You need to straighten your elbow, to create length in the bicep muscles in order to then, generate strength.
      The feeling is real; you need to pee. Even if you have very little in there. The connection between your brain and your bladder is kinda impaired right now. It’s telling you that you need to pee even when there is very little urine in your bladder. That can be retrained though, which is the good part. The treatment is learning how to relax and lengthen those inside muscles and then retrain the connection between your bladder and your brain. Would you be able to see a pelvic health physio in your area?

      • How does one retrain the connection between bladder and brain when there is oab due to tight pelvic floor?

        • If the muscles inside are too tight, then breathing to calm down the sympathetic nervous system and be more in the parasympathetic system is the go to. Tight muscles are being fed by an overactive nervous system, so accessing the parasympathetic system will allow those muscles to learn to relax more.

  21. Cathy,
    I messaged you before about the PT person and 5-7days of soreness do you know one in Olympia Washington and do you think l should check my neuro transmitters to see if l am balanced and could this pelvic pain be anxiety and PTSD causing the pelvic pain. I am on medications and l am still in terrible pain. I stretch and walk on the treadmill but l am still in pain. Any advise or can you give me reputable names of some good PT people and Functional medicine Doctors in Olympia Washington. I really need pointed in the right direction. I am in total pelvic pain and am failing at climbing out. HELP!!! Please Dave

  22. Cathy,
    Dave again could my constant pain be from my muscles clenching nerves which cause pain in my rectum. What can l do to make it stop. I am taking muscle relaxers also.

    • The main thing is to make sure you know how to and are actively able to release/stretch those inside muscles. Yes, clenching will not help

  23. Cathy,
    What do. Myou think about ultrasound heat therapy for male pelvic pain have you or heard any successes. That is what my Pt uses on me and wonder if you think it is beneficial?

    • Hi Dave. Sorry for the late reply. I don’t know a lot about this; expect it’s like many other modalities; some of them help some of the people some of the time. Everything is worth a shot, especially if you have benefits to cover the treatment. If you are getting some relief, that’s great; keep it up. Because the nervous system is involved in pain, that is the main area I would deal with; trying to change how the nervous system interprets pain. No matter what modality is used, you also need to be taught how to change your nervous system on your own. So as long as that is part of the treatment, I think that’s great.

  24. I have been diagnosed with a tight pelvic floor. This has been causing severe penile pain near the tip and hypersensitivity. I have difficulty wearing clothing, even underwear. I have had constipation issues. Would dry needling help? Thank you!

    • Hi Rick. Dry needling the external muscles may help. You definitely need to be able to release the tight inside muscles though; that is the most important part.


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